Hello,
I first started using DM when I was in Afghanistan. With the slow internet connection we had after getting shot at on a mission in a village controlled by Taliban it was nice to come back to my small camp of 150 soldiers and be able to talk to someone.
I had met a girl named Olga who lived in Vinnitsa and we communicated for 6 month. I lived in Italy at the time and I actually didn't decide to visit her when I moved back to the U.S.. I did not do it through the website as I had made plans outside the website, and she even thought it would be a good idea to do that. Anyways I arrived in Ukraine, and her brother-in-law picked me up and gave me a ride from Kiev, because she could not get off work, very nice guy. She met me at the hotel and it was amazing to finally meet the girl I have been talking to for a long time. Anyways long story short, a trip that I thought would be an amazing trip, turned into a not so fun trip.
She couldn't get work off (or so she said), I hung out with her two friends Victoria and Vika who were fun, and she said she had to go to the village with her family and her mother wouldn't let her stay hangout with me. Out of the 8 days I spent in Ukraine I saw Olga 3 days no more than probably 3 hours during those 3 times.
I am a young guy, Veteran, I workout every day, I now am a successful businessman, and I have no problem in getting a girls number back at home. I joined dream because when I lived in Italy for 4 years I fell in love with European women and their ways.
For those of you who haven't noticed the girls on chats aren't really talking to you, some are and some aren't. And the hundreds of emails you get a day are all not legit emails. I recently got an email from a girl who had gave me her personal email attached to her photo so she wouldn't get caught. Here is what she wrote....
"Hello!
If you are a serious man and want to meet a real Ukrainian lady, write me to my email which you can see on my photo and we will start communication. I do not want to communicate at this scammer website just because I am pressed to communicate with those whom I am not interested in.
I like your profile, and if you could like mine, it would be nice to talk to you)
Wish the best regards,
Alinka---------"
I didn't think anything of the amount of money spent on credits or webcam or flowers, I thought it was normal. Then I realized there are other dating sites out there that are cheaper and you do the same thing.
I do not trust this site but.... I had currently met a girl on here who is legit. I had told her my thoughts and views on this site and she agreed with me. She had given me her VK (generic Facebook) account, and she even downloaded an app for both of us to be able to text message for free and videochat. We are actually going to Hong Kong to spend New years eve together.
So..... I guess it depends on who you meet. Dream marriage isn't just one agency, it works with multiple agencies and those agencies may control the girls in some way without DM knowledge. If she is interested in you she will make an effort to try and talk to you outside of Dream Marriage. But keep in mind that this website automatically translates their email into English and your email into Russian. So if they feel comfortable using that site more than they do on skype or VK or Facebook, it's because they do not want to copy and paste your email the whole time. She's legit if she sends you videos of her talking to you and giving you kisses.
For you older gents, don't automatically assume they're gold diggers. I think all women like a man who can bring them security. I live in California, I've dated so many girls that are all about money. Don't be in a hurry. Just because you are from U.S. or U.K. and have a house and money that these girls should hurry up and fall in love with you.
I would like to end this review by telling you gents to be smart, be careful, and that it's okay to take risks sometimes. Trust me I know about taking risks.
Good Luck!
