So, I will tell the whole story
Black Adopted Male here in early 30's now, never been married 1 out of wedlock Child, Business Owner
I saw this on Oprah's New network maybe about 2 years ago but always was timid to try
I opened my Account with Blossoms Apprx 10/15 /14... SO VERY RECENTLY.
I am a good looking male, just very shy around women.
Right away within minutes I received Dozens of Emails, and IM's from ladies.
I will admit it was very Overwhelming as the avg Male adult does not get that attention here in America.
I kept my goal in mind... MARRIAGE... NOT TO BE A PLAYER...
I settled for the 2nd maybe the 3rd woman that approached me.
21, Pretty, from Cebu City area.
We hit it off right away.
Im praying to God THANK YOU SO MUCH.
We talked to each other So much my Phone bill increases to a Pretty + $600
We quickly develop the I Love You's
She would SING TO ME on the phone in her language
Talk about Marriage, Children, Her getting to America...
I mean... She really made a Brotha feel something no one has ever even ATTEMPTED with me : (
Hey man... I'd do ANYTHING for Her... It's REAL LOVE... Or so I thought
(We will call her Darmine for this Review because Im no Snitch)
One thing I didn't mention is that for the 1st bit, her supposed COUSIN acts as our Translator, as Darmine is Pretty for CERTAIN, but has the worst English ever... Kinda cute...
But Anyway...So her cousin we will call her (Charlie) is present for our 1st Skype conversations and what not to help translate. I did notice maybe about 20 or 30 mins in to our 1st conversation that CHARLIE was doing the talking... She wasn't even asking Darmine for her replies AT ALL... But the way Darmine was looking at me... I just thought there was more there... She kept saying You are so Guapo... Guapo is Handsome... She really made me feel special man... After OBVIOUSLY just a few days (which at the time if you DONT CATCH YOURSELF FAST, it will seem like you've known her a month already) we talked more seriously about the Passport and Blah blah blah... Im not sure about you, but Honestly Ive wanted Love and Marriage since I was like... As far as Ive known myself to be truthful... And so I figured to myself... After all the failed attempts with American women... all the heartbreak.... all the dates that lead NOWHERE... Why not atleast give it a try... I mean if I add it up, positives and Negatives... This current situation seemed to have more POSITIVES then getting on Match.com or something trying to find a date from someone who will run away COMPLETELY at the word Marriage.
So... Me being a bit naive but IN LOVE and HOPING for more... Charlie came up with some estimates of what it takes for them BOTH to get a passport and VISA and whatever else that's needed to travel abroad. All in all theres an estimate of about $640 US dollars... So I think, "Really what do you have to lose? Its a chunk of money but if you REALLY can finally be happy forever... Consider that sh** DONE!"
So... I went down to Western Union and Sent the money.
All is well for another 5 or 6 days... Now its her Dad's Birthday...
I send another $130. Some so she can have a Bday party for her Dad and the Other to get internet service so SHE AND I could communicate less expensively...
AND THAT... I'm afraid was my BIGGEST MISTAKE
As soon as I sent her the money for the internet... The time she and I would spend together in the VIRTUAL WORLD faded away, or Ceased to exist IMMEDIATELY... That day I sent that last 130 was probably the last day we had a conversation more than 5 minutes. She would usually Call me (Skype) in the mornings here... That was to be NEVER AGAIN : ( .... Suddenly her Skype contacts Climb from 1 (Just me) to a WHOPPING 12!... I'm early 30's as I said and being in America... I think we guys all know EXACTLY what those signs mean... No matter HOW MUCH I don't want it to be true... I am no longer THE ONLY MAN. I am so heart broken I immediately recede all efforts to amend the situation or find further whats REALLY happening. Maybe about 6 days go by and there's NO communication between her and I at ALL... She sends me a Skype message... Me being a dumb lonely idiot I welcome her conversation again... Within 4 or 5 sentences... "Oh I need more money for the internet, so we can talk..." I almost had to give her a taste of Harsh American language... But in the end she tells me that... She is moving to Cebu City in a month to pursue BEING A WAITRESS... Also says in so many words that she has No plans to Marry me... And in her EXACT WORDS, "You are Free to find another woman to marry"
Crushed!
So All in all.. There it is... The truth... Not gonna say DON'T try the site because, it didnt work for me... The little Virtual relationship she and I had was the Best thing thats happened to me in a year and a half... Really breaks my heart but... Atleast Im not thinking about my ex like I used to everyday.
Its Really messed up how Women are today... I haven't left the house in 10 days
