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Okay, I've read tons of forums warning about the scamming at this site. I've been a member for 4 months now. In my personal experience, it is what it is. Yes, as a member, you will recieve hundreds of messages from women. Yes, most of them look too good to be true. Yes, some of the messages are absolutely scripted. But once in a while, you'll get one that is what it is. There are legitimate women here, interested in what they say.
For me, the key was actually putting information in MY profile that would be things I would reveal to any woman, anywhere about my life. Things that were safe to share, but personal enough that they wouldn't be easy to fit in the scripts and such.
When I read a womans letter and was interested in what she had to say, I read her profile too, and then, after that if I was still interested I'd write, and ask her to read my profile. If she replied past that, I'd quiz a few points, and ask my own questions.
If I got stupid wishy washy "You are my hero and I'm In love with you forever baby sweetie honey pie..." drivel... DON'T WRITE BACK... That simple. You're the guy with the credit card - if you don't want to send a ton of messages, don't buy the extra tokens. If you don't need to watch the videos or utilize the live chat, don't punch the CC number in...
Of the literally thousands of mails I received, I took my time, wrote only the ones that I felt truly might be interesting to know. I got lots of duds. But I also had alot of fun, (the scripted stuff gets really funny sometimes - my favorite "You are my king and I am ur wench") got to know some of the girls well, became friends with a dozen or so, and I'm planning my own trip to Kiev sometime later this year.
I don't intend to hire an interpretter. I don't intend to spend a fortune on gifts and travel arrangements for them. I'm simply going to let the ones I'm closest to, that I've built some trust with, know I'll be in town, what hotel I might stay at, and what I might plan to do for a few days if they'd like to say hello.
If I end up with no company, I'll still be in Kiev! Anyone else been there lately? I'll take it for what it is, an opportunity that might lead to something great. An opportunity to enjoy myself. And opportuninty even if I don't meet the woman of my dreams, to have some fun and go somewhere new to experience something different.
I'd recommend a free membership. Take it slow is my advice. Take it for what it is. No worse than setting up in the local pub drooling over the chick at the end of the bar. And no hangover in the morning either. Use your brain - the one above the belt, you'll be fine.
If it doesn't work out - keep dreamin'.
In summary, I would recommend Dream Marriage to a friend.
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