Okay, I've read tons of forums warning about the scamming at this site. I've been a member for 4 months now. In my personal experience, it is what it is. Yes, as a member, you will recieve hundreds of messages from women. Yes, most of them look too good to be true. Yes, some of the messages are absolutely scripted. But once in a while, you'll get one that is what it is. There are legitimate women here, interested in what they say.
For me, the key was actually putting information in MY profile that would be things I would reveal to any woman, anywhere about my life. Things that were safe to share, but personal enough that they wouldn't be easy to fit in the scripts and such.
When I read a womans letter and was interested in what she had to say, I read her profile too, and then, after that if I was still interested I'd write, and ask her to read my profile. If she replied past that, I'd quiz a few points, and ask my own questions.
If I got stupid wishy washy "You are my hero and I'm In love with you forever baby sweetie honey pie..."...
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